I'm so sorry.
I know it doesn't help your grief but I do want you to know it really warms my heart to see a budgie flock so loved. They need it just as much as any bird of course but many littles, budgies most of all, are so unlikely to get the life they deserve. It looks and sounds like she had such a great life with you, and was a huge character to leave such a hole in your heart.
I hope you and your flock are well today. Wings high little Toshi, may you fly free from your sickness in birdie heaven.
It's truly been so hard, i've gotten to know my tear ducts very well this past week. Everyday I managed to read two or three of everybody's comments before sobbing uncontrollably and I truly appreciate everyone's support. It's nice to not completely take this on alone. My family aren't bird fans so don't understand it, although they have been supportive, even if they don't fully get it.
She'd been with me from day one so to not have her it's felt and it honestly gets me sick at times. I want to tell her to use her 'inside voice' over and over cos she's screaming too loud or stop hogging the attention because she was so needy. She was so loud, the loudest of the entire flock and its truly heard. I want to hear that screaming, I feel like I need it.
My flock, I am sure they are all grieving as well, maybe in another few days someone will scream the house down.
This morning though, Lumina (Toshi's mother) Sang me a lovely song, the first I'd heard of her voice since Toshi's passing which was refreshing bringing a smile to my heart. They're just so beautiful and deserve so much whether they stand with me for years or days. I love them. Always.