He is okay. The oven works okay, my grandma has early dementia and turned it on. She refuse s to believe that teflon, smoking, and self cleaning oven s can kill dexter, as if I a m just saying that because I don't like it. My door has a seal underneath, I shoved a towel under there to be sure. She wouldn't let me turn it off. I watched him as long as possible before I left, the timer had 15 minutes left when I called the uber. I hate when she puts Dexter at risk and won t let me fix it. If it were warmer I'd have put him outside or something. I'm going to go crazy.She seems to think of me as a child (literally turned 20 on monday), speaking to me like one and treating my.concerns like a child insisting their fish needs to go to the vet. She goes off on me any time I disagree with her. She yelled at me once beca use i "forgot to turn off the living room light" before going to bed, my brother had turned it back on before she woke up. I told her I got out of bed to turn it off a little after I got in bed, but she kept yelling. She threatened to kick me and Dexter onto the street because I spilled water hand washing a piece of laundry and didn't notice . She won't so much as turn on the oven can when she cooks. I put up a note reminding her to shut the bedroom door before cooking, she immediately tossed it. I'm terrified I'll lose Dexter this way, and it will break me.
Yes, she's your grandmother and you love each other, but does she not understand what it will do to you and your relationship with her if she kills Dexter despite your warnings? 
