So I went to the store and played with a 3 month old Hyacinth today (already sold but staying in the store until November at the earliest or whenever he decides he's completely weaned). The entire time I was thinking "something like this or Spike?". Both are sooooo different, but at least with Spike I know exactly what I'm getting myself into. I still have the welts on my arm from the baby Hy this morning.
Spike is super-QUIET except for her endless talking, which I love and laugh at. She's not a 100% one-person bird, she's a cuddler, I can flip her upside down and all over, she doesn't pluck, she's laid-back, she tries to be friends with our caique (he doesn't try back, AT ALL), she doesn't freak out in the car, and she's totally fine with our labs running around and bumping into her cage to get at the food she's dropped. She's all of this despite the fact she went through the horror of losing her leg to a raccoon. Sometimes I think things are brought to us for a reason, so while a Hy and a Grey are worlds apart and I've been bitten by more Greys than I can count, Spike is different. She's made us laugh every day while she's been with us. How can you not love a bird that takes the effort with one leg to hang upside down from the inside roof of her cage, rattle the top tray and yell "EARTHQUAKE!" (we're in California). I think I'm pretty close to my decision....she's a grey Hy with a red tail that hates men and doesn't care to be the center of attention. She's basically a perfect parrot with the exception of the hating men thing, but Birdy in VT's post gives me hope. She's a converted seed junkie so if my husband becomes the sole giver of her daily tsp of seed and gives her one here and there, we could use it to our advantage.