Tiefenthaler
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Hi there. My name is Linda Tiefenthaler. I have a rose breasted cockatoo named Otis. He is about 6 months old. I've had him about 3 months. He is a sweet little guy. I thought he was bonding with me, but then I went on vacation for a week and now he has bonded with my boy friend. JJ.
Seriously bonded Definitely prefers him. Plus now Otis has started biting me. He wasn't biting before I went on vacation. There are three other birds in the house an eclectus and two conures. And ALL of them are bonded to JJ. too. He seems to have the magic touch. Apparently I don't.
JJ, is able to read the birds better than I can. And handles them better. He goes out of his way to pet and touch Otis. Spending longer than with the other birds. . I've asked him not to do this, but he ignores me. He sez that he can't help it that every one else's animals have always preferred him. And that I'm just not doing things right. When I asked him not to mess with Otis so much he sez that if he stopped it would break his heart and break Otis's heart too. What about my heart? I'm so bummed.
To be fair JJ does have a calmer nature. And like I said he can read them better. I have stress and self esteem issues. I'm sure Otis can sense this. And of course would rather hang out with him.
This post seems to have turned into a therapy session.
Point is I really love Otis, but I think I've lost him. Is there any way to reverse that? Or should I just accept the fact that maybe I don't deserve to be a parrot owner. I'm at a loss here. I don't want to lose Otis. Is there ant way that I can win Otis over again? I'm so very bummed.
Any suggestions? And yes I am trying to join a stress management group/class.
Seriously bonded Definitely prefers him. Plus now Otis has started biting me. He wasn't biting before I went on vacation. There are three other birds in the house an eclectus and two conures. And ALL of them are bonded to JJ. too. He seems to have the magic touch. Apparently I don't.
JJ, is able to read the birds better than I can. And handles them better. He goes out of his way to pet and touch Otis. Spending longer than with the other birds. . I've asked him not to do this, but he ignores me. He sez that he can't help it that every one else's animals have always preferred him. And that I'm just not doing things right. When I asked him not to mess with Otis so much he sez that if he stopped it would break his heart and break Otis's heart too. What about my heart? I'm so bummed.
To be fair JJ does have a calmer nature. And like I said he can read them better. I have stress and self esteem issues. I'm sure Otis can sense this. And of course would rather hang out with him.
This post seems to have turned into a therapy session.
Point is I really love Otis, but I think I've lost him. Is there any way to reverse that? Or should I just accept the fact that maybe I don't deserve to be a parrot owner. I'm at a loss here. I don't want to lose Otis. Is there ant way that I can win Otis over again? I'm so very bummed.
Any suggestions? And yes I am trying to join a stress management group/class.