SquawksNibbles
Rollerblading along the road
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- Kiera
Most of us here on Avian Avenue have been through some pretty tough times, yet we’ve been lucky enough to have our feathered friends by our side (and not to mention, our AA friends’ support, too). My two feathered boys, I know, have helped me through several difficult times. Some of which I still struggle with and others my birds have already helped me get through.
So, I thought it was appropriate to create a thread for how our birds have helped us get through these difficult times.
For me, one thing that my little boys helped me with was the passing of my two other Budgies before them: Bella, and Alex. The one that affected me most was Bella’s passing. Here’s a link with a little bit of her story: My Dear Bella | Avian Avenue Parrot Forum.
Anyways, the guilt from her passing got to me... bad. Later down the road I brought Alex in to my home, only to have him pass a couple days later - we found out he was sick. No doubt from the pet store we got him from. Well, you can imagine how that made me feel - absolutely horrible. But then Skittles and Nico came along, and they filled in my heart. They have helped me though the guilt and grief of my dear Bella and Alex’s passing (and may they never be forgotten). Though, they of course haven’t made it all go away, they are 2 more amazing creatures I can love when I’m feeling down.
One thing I have struggled with my whole life is extreme shyness. I want to be a social person, I want to talk to people and meet people, but when I try to talk with strangers I just can’t come out of my shell. I guess I’m just worried people will judge me or something - I don’t even know. But it’s infuriating, because the way others do it, it just looks so easy, and I’m sure it is, but definitely not for me. And when I can’t interact with other people, I just always have my little flock to keep my company. And this, this has just been a great help. Because without them, or any of my other pets, or the people here on AA (which I joined because of the birds), I would be a very, very lonely person.
And in April of 2017, our grandma died in hospice care. She had already been in hospice care once before, but she had actually gotten better, it was a miracle, and she was able to go home for a little while. Then perhaps a little over a year later, in April of 2017, she got back in to hospice because it was not looking good. I guess I really wasn’t aware of what would happen - because she had already been in hospice a year ago and yet had recovered and went home and was healthier and everything. So I guess I was kind of expecting the same to happen again. But then one morning, when our aunt and uncle had been staying with us, my aunt got the text saying she had passed. And because my parents and siblings were asleep, I had to be the one to go in there and tell everyone. It was totally devastating for the whole family. And of course we were all there for each other, but my fids provided me with extra support. Around the time our grandma passed, I had upgraded the birds’ cage. And it was just amazing seeing the birds so happy with their new home and everything, and they gave me more comfort.
These are just a few examples of how my Budgie boys have helped me through some of the toughest times of my life. I hope others will come along and share, though only do it if you feel like it.
So, I thought it was appropriate to create a thread for how our birds have helped us get through these difficult times.
For me, one thing that my little boys helped me with was the passing of my two other Budgies before them: Bella, and Alex. The one that affected me most was Bella’s passing. Here’s a link with a little bit of her story: My Dear Bella | Avian Avenue Parrot Forum.
Anyways, the guilt from her passing got to me... bad. Later down the road I brought Alex in to my home, only to have him pass a couple days later - we found out he was sick. No doubt from the pet store we got him from. Well, you can imagine how that made me feel - absolutely horrible. But then Skittles and Nico came along, and they filled in my heart. They have helped me though the guilt and grief of my dear Bella and Alex’s passing (and may they never be forgotten). Though, they of course haven’t made it all go away, they are 2 more amazing creatures I can love when I’m feeling down.
One thing I have struggled with my whole life is extreme shyness. I want to be a social person, I want to talk to people and meet people, but when I try to talk with strangers I just can’t come out of my shell. I guess I’m just worried people will judge me or something - I don’t even know. But it’s infuriating, because the way others do it, it just looks so easy, and I’m sure it is, but definitely not for me. And when I can’t interact with other people, I just always have my little flock to keep my company. And this, this has just been a great help. Because without them, or any of my other pets, or the people here on AA (which I joined because of the birds), I would be a very, very lonely person.
And in April of 2017, our grandma died in hospice care. She had already been in hospice care once before, but she had actually gotten better, it was a miracle, and she was able to go home for a little while. Then perhaps a little over a year later, in April of 2017, she got back in to hospice because it was not looking good. I guess I really wasn’t aware of what would happen - because she had already been in hospice a year ago and yet had recovered and went home and was healthier and everything. So I guess I was kind of expecting the same to happen again. But then one morning, when our aunt and uncle had been staying with us, my aunt got the text saying she had passed. And because my parents and siblings were asleep, I had to be the one to go in there and tell everyone. It was totally devastating for the whole family. And of course we were all there for each other, but my fids provided me with extra support. Around the time our grandma passed, I had upgraded the birds’ cage. And it was just amazing seeing the birds so happy with their new home and everything, and they gave me more comfort.
These are just a few examples of how my Budgie boys have helped me through some of the toughest times of my life. I hope others will come along and share, though only do it if you feel like it.