Let people tell you to neuter your dog, heck, if someone told me that, it would go in one ear and out of the other (my dog is not and never will be castrated and I will never breed him for ethical reasons).
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Also, the birds and the dog in my house are not my animals, they´re my family. The birds that land on my balcony are animals. Just my thoughts.
I know this is two months later but I just LOVED this post and particularly these parts. For medical reasons (anal gland & prostate enlargement) I had to have my ten yo chihuahua altered. I never bred him either and endured ten years of pushy vets trying to sell me the idea that he needed to be “fixed” to be an acceptable dog. No one had any scientific or medical reasoning, just this American idea that no dog/cat should be allowed to live intact. Heinous. I mean really how insane is it to surgically alter animals without question under the guise that it is best for them!? They don’t even do that to
convicted human predators! I felt like I’d betrayed him but I also knew that by doing nothing, I was letting him physically suffer. Not okay for my son, the love of my life, mirror of my soul, the first member of my family that I made all on my own.
My family shaped my personal ethos on the permanence of family that you bring into your home by being the kind of people I will never be. People who bought a puppy and got rid of it, bought their girls birds, got rid of them, and proceeded to encourage me to dump every one of my pack/flock members for the past ten years. My mom just doesn’t understand animals that don’t eventually serve a food purpose (protecting your / food animals) from her rural Italian upbringing, I get asking me why I don’t eat the Lorenzo (my bun) what I don’t get is why the next option is get rid of it. Nope, love you mamma but no. The “get rid of it” people are why breeding animals Willy nilly gets people upset, a home with a nice family does not guarantee a damn thing. When I brought my chihuahua in for his surgery I showed the vet tech his baby picture and she was shocked I’d had him his whole life from ten weeks to ten years - if that isn’t a true testament to how rare a permanent one and only family is, idk what is.
The problem with communities that form for the love of animals is we tend to love animals. That means strong ethical opinions on breeding them without proper consideration
and personal ownership of the possible “costs of doing business”. It
is dismissive and reckless to just attack people at will, however - sharing our ethos, experience, and opinions is literally
exactly why we’re here (and obviously, above all else, to see many birds and commune with others who love them). Much like the (insert Country) Kennel Clubs, I am positive there are many many forums specifically dedicated to breeding birds.
Maybe to resolve the issue of chasing people out at the expense of already existing baby birds, whom we clearly care about, we could offer a resources link to a list of those sites and of course our opinions along with it. That way even if someone feels dissuaded from posting their questions here, we give them a clear path to others they may feel more comfortable approaching.
They’re very likely to go from a community concerned about bird wellbeing to a community dedicated to the wellbeing and preservation of the breed/s. Nowhere in dedicated communities of animal lovers are breeders of reckless abandon looked upon kindly. Not even on Craigslist (home of backyard breeding) are these breeders completely tolerated. I am all for helping people who’ve made a mistake and need assistance. Hey, I’m currently benefiting from that assistance - albeit not due to a mistake of mine, but a choice to help babies clearly brought into this world without forethought. I had two cockatiels as a kid, no idea if they were male or female (gotten rid of *eye twitch*) we could have had babies, they had a little snuggle hut...in another family some people might have found themselves facing an unexpected arrival of extra birds and wanting to do the right thing for them. I thought Peeps (I call her The Wife now lol) was a boy until a certain sassiness took over my sweet boy. I had her DNA tested because gender matters a lot more in Latinate languages and I was having issues talking about/to my wife
If there’s a genuine concern that we are endangering baby/female birds by discouraging uninformed breeding, it could be easily resolved by offering a pathway to informed dedicated breeding or even veterinary communities for their expertise. And if anyone is thick-skinned and even-minded enough to brave our community’s various opinions, we’re always here to help. That is a fact I think any of us could agree upon.
@Zara sorry for looping you in on my rant, I just really loved and connected with your post
then the ranting ensued